一年了。。。

再过多两天，
又是2月1日了。。
一年了...

你过得还好吗？
想必大家依然还会想起你...

新年将近，
在那里的你，
买了新年衣吗？
新年要有新气象....
才够帅^^

人生学会随缘，才能活得自在

越多事情你越想得到它，反而往往会远离你，正所谓凡事不要太过强求

　　在这个世界上，凡事不可能一帆风顺，事事如意，总会有烦恼和 忧愁。当不顺心的事时常萦绕着我们的时候，我们该如何面对呢?“随缘自适，烦恼即去”。其实，随缘是一种进取，是智者的行为，愚者的借口。何为随?随不是 跟随，是顺其自然，不怨恨，不躁进，不过度，不强求；随不是随便，是把握机缘，不悲观，不刻板，不慌乱，不忘形；随是一种达观，是一种洒脱，是一份人生的成熟，一份人情的练达。

　 　何为缘?世间万事万物皆有相遇、相随、相乐的可能性。有可能即有缘，无可能即无缘。缘，无处不有，无时不在。你、我、他都在缘的网络之中。常言说，“有 缘千里来相会，无缘对面不相识”。万里之外，异国他乡，陌生人对你哪怕是相视一笑，这便是缘。也有的虽心仪已久，却相会无期。缘，有聚有散，有始有终。有 人悲叹：“天下没有不散的筵席。既然要散，又何必聚?”缘是一种存在，是一个过程。

　　“有缘即住无缘去，一任清风送白云。”人生有所求，求而得之，我之所喜；求而不得，我亦无忧。若如此，人生哪里还会有什么烦恼可言?苦乐随缘，得失随缘，以“人世”的态度去耕耘，以“出世”的态度去收获，这就是随缘人生的最高境界。

　　“随缘”，常常被一些人理解为不需要有所作为，听天由命，由此也成为逃避问题和困难的理由。殊不知，随缘不是放弃追求，而是让人以豁达的心态去面对生活；随缘是一种智慧，可以让人在狂热的环境中，依然拥有恬静的心态，冷静的头脑；随缘是一种修养，是饱经人世的沧桑，是阅尽人情的经验，是透支人生的顿悟。随缘不是没有原则、没有立场，更不是随便马虎。“缘”需要很多条件才能成立，若能随顺因缘而不违背真理，这才叫“随缘”。

　　生活中，常有人会有这样的感慨和迷惑：“为什么有的人不喜欢我?”“为什么有的人不理解我?”“为什么会是这样?”若从随缘的角度看，不喜欢不需要任何理由，喜欢也不需要任何理由；理解不需要任何理由，不理解也不需要任何理由。缘分就是缘分，不需要任何理由。

　　大千世界芸芸众生，可谓是有事必有缘，如喜缘，福缘，人缘，财缘，机缘，善缘，恶缘等。万事随缘，随顺自然，这不仅是禅者的态度，更是我们快乐人生所需要的一种精神。随缘是一种平和的生存态度，也是一种生存的禅境。“宠辱不惊，闲看庭前花开花落；去留无意，漫随天外云卷云舒。”放得下宠辱，那便是安详自在。吃饭时吃饭，睡觉时睡觉。凡事不妄求于前，不追念于后，从容平淡，自然达观，随心，随情，随理，便识得有事随缘皆有禅味。在这繁忙的名利场中，若能常得片刻清闲，放松身心，静心体悟，日久功深，你便会识得自己放下诸缘后的本来面目：活泼泼的，清静无染的菩提觉性。人们获得缘不是靠奋斗和创造，而是用本能的智慧去领悟去判断。

　　佛家多讲随缘，有“随缘不变，不变随缘”、“随缘，莫攀缘”等说法。“随缘”不是随便行事、因循苟且，而是随顺当前环境因缘，从善如流；“不变”不是墨守成规、冥顽不化，而是要择善固守。随缘不变，则是不模糊立场，不丧失原则。就在世间上做人，要通情达理、圆融做事，这样才能够达到事理相融。

　　随缘不变，则是不违背真理。庄子妻死，他知道生死如春夏秋冬四季的变化运行，既不能改变，也不可 抗拒，所以他能“顺天安命，鼓盆而歌”；陆贾《新语》云：“不违天时，不夺物性。”明白宇宙人生都是因缘和合，缘聚则成，缘灭则散，才能在迁流变化的无常 中，安身立命，随遇而安。生活中，如果能在原则下恪守不变，在小细节处随缘行道，自然能随心自在而不失正道。

　　随缘，是一种胸怀，是一种成熟，是对自我内心的一种自信和把握。读懂随缘的人，总能在风云变幻、艰难坎坷的生活中，收放自如、游刃有余；总能在逆境中，找寻到前行的方向，保持坦然愉快的心情。随缘，是对现实正确、清醒的认识，是对人生彻悟之后的精神自由，是“聚散离合本是缘”的达观，“得即高歌失即休”的超然，更是“一蓑烟雨任平生”的从容。拥有一份随缘之心，你就会发现，天空中无论是阴云密布，还是阳光灿烂；生活的道路上无论是坎坷还是畅达，心中总是会拥有一份平静和恬淡。

kai xi

ther is a period of time tat i didn't sign in here...
unconsciously,u leave us for 10 month d...i used to miss u like last time...
im unwilling to sign in here coz i still assume u are still stay v us...
i didn't get ur news for long time d,how r u ther??
still the same Q tat all of us will ask with one voice...
hmm...i gt many thg wana share v u bt nt through here...
through my heart...=)
i noe u will be very pleasure to be my audience,hehe
tat's u,alwaz gv us recommendation and opinion...
i tink bek the time whn im goin to share my happiness v u,
misfortune ther is no more chance!!NO MORE!!
i duno the decision i made is rite o nt for the former time...
but i noe i never regret with my decision...
but y everythg change??haih...
arrrggghhh!!im goin to be insane!!can u help me??can u??
haih!!but to my way of thinking,nobody can help...nobody!!
aikss...speechless...
hope evrythg will be fine soon...
I HOPE...I PRAY...I EXPECTING and WAITING with patience...
i will stop here...hope the next time i sign in,u will receive my hot wire...
okay??bye...take k=) miss euuu XD

come bac can?

come back can? come back can?
come back can? come back can?
come back can? come back can?
come back can? come back can?
come back can? come back can?

too selfish to do tht..sorry tht's out of my control..
i knw it's impossible for you to come back..............
but i still want to ask you come back....how??????
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Hi there!

Yeah, I suppose you all are surprising because I could log in to Kai Hee's blog...yup, I gotten password from Ai Lun since almost half year ago.

Never thought of updating any blog here, but all in sudden one...tonight I would like to update my words in here. I think is because I want to find somewhere to release my pressure of examination.

To Kai Hee,
How are you getting on? Hope you are still remembering me ya.. I believe you do...we used to play together back in our kids time...yeah, if you still remember...We liked to play the all sort of jumping games..for instance, the "Zero Jump, zero point" all that... And we used to run through the "New Village" area...so did in Yang Kao and the Malay Primary School....

Time really past like a blink of eyes...it was too soon..all these have become memorable moments...couldn't believe these were the things that occured back in 10 years ago...No doubt I'm getting older from day to day....

Yup, I think you know as I've told you before...I'm in same college as you, but different branches...currently taking Advanced Diploma for final year...yeah, it is kinda stress enough! You should be able to know the tense of mine as you're Tarcian too.... I believe you do feel the atmosphere of tense during this kinda period right? Well, for me...this time will be extremely tough one.....I just wish I can pass through all this as soon as possible...

Oh yeah, recently found your bro in facebook....I feel great to meet him there....and saw him posting all your relevant photos in his profile...I was quite touching and kinda missing you... well, abit "yok ma" but still it truly comes from my heart.... I suppose your bro is doing well now...you should be able to know la....your own bro mah, no need my update guaaaa~ Haha.....

Ok la, I have nothing much to write already....thanks for accompanying me when I'm in stress situation...Wish you're happily doing the things you like over there ya.... Cheers, my friend!








Yours Sincerely,
-Chin Han @ JiN -
(feel free to visit my own blog - http://www.sean14och.blogspot.com/)

sharing sharing with ah pi o! hehe..

kai hee, hw are u so far? i miss u oo....long time didn chat with u d, i seldom to come here..jz want to tell you my condition lo. my 2nd sem result had came out, and it was better than 1st sem o....!! hehe...feel very happy with that..and i was going to second year, everything has bcm hard and harder, the law subject becum more and more, i jz scare that i cant handle it. 2 weeks i been here for my second year, i still havent touch anything on book, sumtimes feel tension, but i didn hav any action or any motivation to touch the books. since my tutorial claz havent started yet, so, i wan to be a lazy worm 1st. hehehe....oh..forget to tell u smth ya.. i do hav a handsome junior fr my hometown o! u try to guess who is it??? hmmm... ..... i am excited to tell you the person o! hehe.. my handsome junior is hao han lo.. he is currently studying in ukm and taking law course which is same with me.. so, in the future or coming of time, i ll nt be so boring and ll nt blame tht i do not hav frd over here.! hehe.. cz i hav ah han ma! in starting, i scare ah han wasn like here, but, everything is instead of it, he is doing gud and he told me tht he like here and enjoying the life over here, i was happy to hear that. hope he can rili rili happy la..( duno he got lie me or nt la! haha ). but he is famaous leh, once he came into my fac, my 4th year senior wanted him to be our fac nite candidate ( which maybe ll be king or queen in our prom nite la), and i was indirectly become his moderator to guide him! haha..i am wondering abt how to guide him so that he can win in the prom nite and to be our fac king! hahaha! u shud popi him ya! hehe..so, if he win, and i as a moderator for him ll be very proud de ma! and i can show off to ppl summore! wahahaha! tell about beh beh pulak, beh beh currently also be in the same campus with me, so, it's mean that 3 of us currently in ukm together lo. i hav met with ah han for few times d, but nvr meet with beh beh. maybe she is busying upon her stuffs ba..hehe..oh ya.i wan to scold her d, moving outside oso didn invite me to go her house.. if u feel free, go to her dream and scold her lo! let her noe abt this matter! buwahahaha...hehe, well, i am staying outside too! hehe, i also nvr invite her to cum here o.. but u cannot scold me ya, becz i rili busy yo! haha! last week jz hav a party in my house, and everynite going out to eat until late nite jz back, so, u cn c that i am rili busy de! hehe!
ok la..i wan to confess that i did wrong cz seldom to write something at here. hehe..and i can c that recently not much frds cum here to write sumting including cing jia! cz the reason is they all were busying with their university life d.. i think you stil duno abt this matter yet.. ok la. i tell u rite nw. mei ying, ying san, yin hua, ah mu are going to uum. and mei ying and san are taking the same course-business, ying hua taking economic, ah mu taking PA. cing jia going to ums but i duno which course he involve to, due to his hao lian style, he nvr tell me pun. u cn scold him also.. very happy to hear abt this new leh??? so, u mz popi them o! also dn forget to popi me la! hehe! :p.........oh ya...ah bin and kiki grad d, on 18 of July, you feel free to go lo! hehe...k la k la... i wn to end at here d.. chat next time ya! miss you!

happy bday my dear fren,i love u

happy bday to u
happy bday to u
happy bday to open heart
hepi bday to u...
xi,today ur bday oo,wish u hepi bday n hepi in other world
i feel repent coz never celebrate ur bday v u
sorry 4 late send wishes to u
coz today im operating the kitchen wif our own menu^^
hehe,8.30am jiu nid go coll kitchen le lo
nw oni reach home lo
im so tired but veli hepi coz our operating is veli successful
n the menu set by ourself taste good
many ppl praise on our delicious food^^
hehe,reali hepi neh!!
but the foto v take r in my fren fon lo
cant share v u tim,haih,nvm la
at least u noe is successful d
duno u gt any wish ma
if got tell me in dream k
i will try to get 4 u,hehe
ok la,stop here lo
chat next time^^bye,miss u
happy bday~~!!