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不管一切如何,应该笑着面对生活。 一死一生,乃知交情。 一贫一富,乃知交态。 一贵一贱,交情乃见。 友谊永远是一个甜蜜的责任,从来不是一种机会; 友谊永远是美德的辅佐,不是罪恶的助手。 无论是多情诗句,漂亮的文章,还是闲暇的欢乐,什么都不能代替无比亲密的友谊。。。

「回忆永存于心」

Wednesday, February 11, 2009

frustrated........

ah pi ar...
recently i am having my midsem law test...last day i jz passed my federal constitution's paper, damn hard, an acid test for me,even though that was a open book test, but i also dun know how to answer the question,i just copied copied from the book which i brought into the hall, at last, i also dunno what i wrote in the paper actually. after exam, i have no feeling at all and i straightly went to eat McD with some friends..hehehe...today, i just started to scare cox i not did well in the previous paper...huhu..
next two day i got another paper, that is my contract law which also known as business law that you studied b4..wow, this sem really harder than last sem o! last sem jz talk about the elements of formatting the contract, and presently,i am going to learn remedy and terms of the contract..i not rili understand the latter one..hehe...i wan to reveal some of my knowledge to you, the term in the contract divided into three, there are condition, warranty and inominate. you can find it in the back of the bus ticket which u often buy. In the back of the ticket, there are an exemption clauses to exempt the bussinessman from certain liabilities. that's all...hahaha..that's only wat i know..haha...very poor hor? haha...you see..with this knowledge, how i going to face my test after two days..hehe..i think this time my result ll badly drop....hope you popi me in heaven.dun be lazy to popi o!

Tuesday, February 10, 2009

微笑〉感谢〉惜缘

希在天之灵肯定是希望我们很快乐,
所以,我们要开心地笑着,
让他知道,
我们依然很好。。


因此,别让泪水浸湿了我们的双眸,
别让我们的眼睛习惯了泪水,
我们是时候释怀,
要开始慢慢习惯没有他的日子。。
加油!
哭了,擦干了泪水,
就要勇敢的面对一切。。


我们要感谢他,
感谢他走进了我们的生命,
感谢他在我们最需要朋友的时候,
总是伸出援手,
就像天使般,
那么善解人意,
那么乐于助人。
这是我们一辈子的感谢。。


从现在开始,
我们要好好珍惜一切。。
因为世间无常。
@ 惜缘 @

Monday, February 9, 2009

走出生离死别带来痛苦的5个阶段

世间的痛苦莫过于生离死别,失去亲人的痛苦会渗透在生活的方方面面,让你饱受折磨,沉浸在其中不能自拔,这种痛苦甚至会改变你和你的生活。尽管我们每个人对待痛苦的方式都不一样,但《B》杂志上刊登的有关专家的研究文章告诉我们,通常要经历以下5个主要阶段,我们才能走出痛苦。

  阶段1:得知噩耗后头3个月   
这是最艰难的时刻,你还处于震惊和极度痛苦之中,不愿承认所爱的人已经不在了。这种剧烈的痛苦会持续几个月甚至几年时间。在这个阶段,最重要的是和其他人谈论你的悲伤,获得他人的支持。

  阶段2:6个月之后   
在这个阶段,丧亲的悲伤和空虚会让你难以忍受,你怀疑自己是否能走出这种痛苦。这个阶段最重要的是要记住,必须一步一步来,坚信自己能够摆脱这种痛苦。

  阶段3:1年以后   
第一个忌日会令你非常恐惧,你害十自会再一次经历丧失的痛苦。但是要知道,恐惧往往比忌日本身更可怕。尽量消除这种恐惧,告诉自己,一年之后仍悲伤是很正常的。
阶段4:3年以后
  你已经学会接受死亡,但孤独感和怀念之情仍会不时涌上心头。怀念和留泪是正常的,但是,如果你仍深陷在悲伤中,不能释怀,那么就需要寻求职业救助了

  阶段5:5年以后   
你还会怀念逝去的人,你还会有丧失感。但是,痛苦已经过去了,你已经能够在生活中继续前进,拥有你从没有感受过的信心和力量。

< 我们之间 >

这一段时间有着什么样的画面
喜怒哀乐全写在日记里面
发现每一页全都是经典
所有的故事都值得纪念
现实的考验我们说好一起面对
不管多久多远绝对不喊累
期待彼此更美好的明天
我们说好谁也不放弃谁
手牵着手(连成线最紧密的圆圈)
肩靠肩(每一刻都好像在身边)
深呼吸做你最高的堡垒
风吹过的海边
雨水下过的季节
让我好想念
我们之间不会有改变
相同的起点一瞬间
变成了乐园
我们之间转了一大圈
相同的终点会发现
所有的心愿会实现
现实的考验我们说好一起面对
不管多久多远绝对不喊累
期待彼此更美好的明天
我们说好谁也不放弃谁
手牵着手(连成线最紧密的圆圈)
肩靠肩(每一刻都好像在身边)
深呼吸做你最高的堡垒
风吹过的海边
雨水下过的季节
让我好想念
我们之间不会有改变
相同的起点一瞬间
变成了乐园
我们之间转了一大圈
相同的终点会发现
所有的心愿会实现

{*棒棒堂*}
[[-我们之间-]]

我一生一世的好朋友


一当我们开始认识的那一天,我就已把你放在我内心里,把你当成我人生里的一分子。不管发生了什么事情,这事实是无法改变的。还记得我们是在cikgu的补习里认识的,但我们的友情是在第二天我们进中学的时候才开始的。你问我还记得你吗?我是那“开心果”呀。那天起,我可以很自私的说:‘你逃不了了,你以注定是我的好朋友了’。但在二月一号的早上,我既然听到了关于你的消息,心想:‘怎么了?这么会这样??’不能接受。那天,我哭不出来,只是眼里湿湿的。我想怎么可能我会不哭?我心爱的好友既然静静的离我们而去。没理由。但现在我知道了理由,原来在我心里,你还是存在的!你还活在我心里!决不会因这事情而把你从我心里给删除的。放心吧,我的好朋友,我会很努力的将你的份继续活下去看这世界。
你友:

Saturday, February 7, 2009

~missing on you~

ah pi, a name who ll last forever in my heart....i wan to know,how are you in heaven? is it everything all right? can you adapt urself at there? feel lonely or not? have you met a lot of new frds at there ?
well, i am sure you will be fine over there
it's too fast you leave us and go to somewhere else which is far away from here..it's too fast, & it's too sudden and made me hard to accept it,i am so sad until wan to get crazy already.....
ah pi, i miss you...every time think about you, my tear ll start to fall down..i cant accept the truth which i was lost a good friend in my life...i really cant..
Tell you..recently, i have no mood to study, i was facing a lot of problem, tension about the exam is coming soon........but, i found no one to call to complaint to.....
try to recall bc,every time if i face with some sort of problems, i ll call on you to complaint, and you ll be my good listener and try to figure out some methods to help me solve it........now..everything was become a memory...but luckily, wat u left for us was a beautiful memory........i ll keep the memories forever in my mind and it ll not be erased easily..i hav nth to say ad. thanks for everything!

一辈子的回忆